Passive Lover

I have a new boyfriend. We have known each other for about 10 years and are best friends. Our only problem seems to be sexual. I have always been a very sensuous, almost passive lover. I always let the man lead things. Not that I have had that much experience. Since I first had sex 23 years ago, I have only been with 5 men.

Andy, he can only get excited when I'm dominant even physically abusive. He brought home a paddle and wanted me to use it on his backside. I tried but was worried about hurting him. I love him, I don't want to hurt him.

This has become a problem for us and I don't know what to do about it.

Worried,
Sandy

Dear Sandy,

I have spent time with many guys who needed exactly what you are describing to get off. I have been seeing twins who are into just that. That have rubbed My feet, given Me full body massages and many other things but what makes their cocks hard is receiving a good beating.

I will bind them to a cross or more often in suspension. As I start to whip, spank or paddle them their cocks get hard. The cock has always been the true barometer for Me. The harder I beat them the harder their cock's get.

I believe that somewhere in their pasts they were conditioned with this type of behavior. Their mother beat them or a teacher or a neighborhood bully. Whatever the case somehow they now equate punishment with sex, in fact that appears to be the only way that they can get off.

As for your situation, the likelihood of Andy being able to change what turns him on is very slim. If you want to try to make this relationship work it would probably be best for you to get a book on female Domination and try to learn something that works for you within both of your parameters.

You may find that you like being in charge and making him do everything that pleases you while at the same time getting him off.

Read the complete story and many more by joining Mistress Rhiannon today...

Back To Mistress Rhiannon Main Page

Join Now

PARENTS: Protect your children on the Internet.
Use one of the following services to ensure they do not enter adult or restricted websites.
NetNanny • CyberPatrol • SafeSurf • SurfWatch